We’ve seen an interesting narrative change about children’s use of smartphones in 2024. Earlier this month Eton College took the bold step of starting to ban smartphones, replacing them with Nokia “bricks”. Whilst we at SCG are all-round tech lovers and suspicious of “moral panic” surrounding such debates, we nevertheless believe this move is ahead of its time and has echoes of the comments Steve Jobs, inventor of the iPad, made about allowing his own kids to use these devices: “we think it’s too dangerous for them in effect“.
At time of writing, however, the norm is that many children are allowed to bring smartphones to school and so let’s address how we as parents can manage the situation as we approach the 2024 summer holidays!
With more free time, kids are likely to spend additional hours online, whether it’s for entertainment, gaming, or socializing with friends. At SCG we understand the importance of ensuring a safe and balanced online experience for your children. Here are some practical tips to help you navigate the digital landscape this holiday season.
1. Set Clear Boundaries
Establishing clear rules about internet usage can help prevent excessive screen time. Determine specific hours when your children are allowed to go online and stick to these schedules. This not only promotes a healthy balance but also helps instill a sense of discipline.
And why not establish a “docking” location – a cupboard where your kids get used to putting their devices before they go to bed, somewhere where the adults of the household can keep a check at all times.
2. Use Parental Controls
Take advantage of parental control settings on Apple devices as well as your internet services. Most UK ISPs now offer a range of great tools, so if in doubt just get in contact with your ISP such as Virgin Media or BT Internet. These tools can help you restrict access to inappropriate content, set time limits, and monitor online activities. Many devices and apps come with built-in parental controls that are easy to configure.
3. Encourage Offline Activities
Yes – we get it. It might sound obvious, but this really is the best way to ensure your child’s digital wellbeing. Encourage your children to engage in offline activities such as reading, playing outside, or participating in family games. Fire up the Scrabble, Monopoly, or whatever it takes! This can help reduce their reliance on digital devices and promote physical and mental well-being.
4. Educate About Online Safety
Have you had open conversations with your children about the importance of online safety? This is something we definitely recommend! Teach them to recognize and avoid potential dangers, such as cyberbullying, phishing scams, and inappropriate content. You could even reward your child for bringing things of concern to your attention. This can help turn a negative online experience that might otherwise be isolating for your child into something that is positive for them, whilst at the same time giving you the opportunity to respond and remain aware of your child’s internet usage. It’s a great opportunity to open-up chats where you can remind them not to share personal information online.
5. Be a Role Model
Children often mimic the behavior of their parents. By demonstrating a balanced approach to internet usage and prioritizing offline activities, you can set a positive example for your kids to follow.
6. Create Tech-Free Zones
Designate certain areas of your home as tech-free zones, such as the dining room or bedrooms. This can help ensure that family meals and bedtime remain free from digital distractions, fostering better family interactions and promoting healthier sleep habits.
7. Stay Involved
Take an active interest in your children’s online activities. Ask them about the games they’re playing, the shows they’re watching, and the websites they’re visiting. This not only keeps you informed but also helps you guide them towards more beneficial content.
Final Thoughts
The internet is a valuable resource for learning and entertainment, but it’s crucial to ensure that your children use it responsibly. By setting boundaries, utilizing parental controls, and encouraging a balanced lifestyle, you can help your kids make the most of their online experiences while staying safe.
At SCG, we’re committed to supporting parents and schools in creating a secure digital environment for children. If you have any questions or need further assistance, don’t hesitate to reach out to our team.
Enjoy a safe and happy Summer Holiday!